男女相配的9大必要条件

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I stumbled this from http://www.sinchew-i.com/, since it is in Chinese, I try to do some simple translation into English.


Nine important things that for best couples.


第一:你们彼此都是对方最好的朋友,不带任何条件的,喜欢与对方在一起。

1. Treat each other as close buddy, and enjoy the moment be with each other.


第二:彼此很容易沟通、互相可以很敞开地坦白任何事情,而不必担心被对方怀疑或轻视。


2. Communicate openly and be frank on everything, without worrying for any suspicion and judgement.


第三:两人在心灵上有共同的理念和价值观,並且对这些观念有清楚的认识与追求。


3. Both are in sync and compromise to each other in their thinking, pursue and direction.


第四:你们都认为婚姻是一辈子的事,而且双方(特別强调“双方”)都坚定地愿意委身在这个长期的婚姻关係中。


4. Believing in the marriage and have trust in the long lasting relationship.


第五:当发生衝突或爭执的时候可以一起来解决,而不是等以后才来发作。

5. Try to get over and settle the argument or miscommunication together as soon as possible, do not drag it overnight and make the matter become more severe.

第六:相处可以彼此逗趣,常有欢笑,在生活中许多方面都会以幽默相待。

6. Have some sense of humour in life, in order to create some laughter at home.

第七:彼此非常瞭解,並且接纳对方,你知道对方瞭解你的优点和缺点,仍然確信 你是被他所接纳。

7. Understand and accept our partner as who s/he is. Tolerate the weakness, and admire the strength of our partner. Always believe that we are also accepted as who we are.

第八:从最认识你,也是你所最信任的人之处,得到支持和肯定。

8. Get support and recognition from the person that you are most trusted.

第九:有时你们会有浪漫的感情,但绝大多数的时候,你们的相处是非常满足而且自在的。

9. Most of the time that you are together, you'll feel satisfied and so natural.

星洲互动·2008.12.25

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