She would extremely quiet. She would do her own stuff. She would never come and bother me. She enjoyed her own sweet time by reading books. She would pick her jie jie's books to read when her jie jie wasn't around. No one would scream at her for touching jie jie's belongings.
And myself, I got some ME time too, when little May was fully focused in her own world. I have to tell ya! The atmosphere and scene weren't as peaceful as in here when her jie jie was back. When two kids were ganged up together, I have to scream when talk. So, having more than one child is totally different from having single child.