He doesn't and he does

13:45 Yannie 33 Comments

He doesn’t  …
1. praise me.
2. say those 3 little words.
3. hold my hand when walking, I will hold his hand instead. Boo hoo!
4. buy me flower or gift on Valentines’ day, my birthday and our Wedding Anniversary.
5. call me often.

But he does
1. fill up my car petrol.
2. house chores and almost all the cleaning jobs at home.
3. spend time with us.
4. set my alarm clock to wake me up every morning.
5. cut fruits and put them on the table next to me, when I look at my phone.







33 comments:

  1. LOL . I do no.2 rarely, no.3 also rarely but no 5 daily cos Im in SG most of the time, after marriage. No.1 and No. 4 ... errrr.... erm... LOL

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    1. I know you spend time with the family on weekends or when you are off from work. This is most appreciated by your wifey and children.

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  2. Who needs words? NATO - no action, talk only...also no point. Action speaks louder than words.

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    1. I agree with you , STP. Always, he is an action type, he talks very less since the day we know each other.

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  3. It's the little things that counts

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    1. Kathy, you are right, I appreciate all the little things that he does. I really love all these little things that he does every day.

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  4. I know that most of my male friends don't do number 1 to 5. They do grrrrr for sure, at home and outside.
    I guess it has something to do with individual up bringing sometimes. If the kids don't see them,
    high chances they will not have them too when they settled down.

    I still applaud all the good little things that Jin-JIn does because most of my friends NEVER DO these good things.
    My "brother" is a good example of a failed father & husband, yet he is such a terrible male chauvinist to cap it.
    If one has such a terrible hubby like him, she would still be just pleased if he only sleeps with her and no one else!

    One day Jin Jin might write in his blog of the wife's dos and don'ts too!. That's why I also need to see the mirror often.
    No one is perfect and YAM are truly blessed with the best father & hubby anyone could dream of.

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    1. Anay, I really appreciate what Jin Jin does for us, especially he is my alarm clock when he is next to me, otherwise he will set alarm clock for me and place it next to my pillow.

      I am blessed, so as my girls. They are blessed. I never done anything successful in my life except having him as my husband.

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    2. Hey, you got him as a hubby is better than win TOTO Jackpot.
      So that's your most successful thing to marry this macho man. LOL
      I see too much rotten people around me nowadays. Good apples are so few.

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    3. Like you said, Anay. No one is perfect. We just have to accept the weaknesses that our partners have and appreciate the things that they have done. Jin Jin has lots of weaknesses actually, but I have even more. Heheheh!

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  5. Mine similar.. He doesn't buy presents or flowers for my birthday, say the 3 words also very seldom I think.. But he does house chores, cook and pickup the kids from daycare almost everyday since I come back late..

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    1. Princess Ribbon, good for you and you too have found the right man for yourself and your children.

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  6. Haha this is pretty cool! Maybe I should write a list too... :p

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    1. I want to read your list too. I am sure you will have a total different list from me, as you are a new parents.

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  7. hahaha.. when i read this post, it does seem like Yannie was complaining the five items on the first paragraph but actually she is feeling so sweet in heart for the five items in the second paragraph.. well, we all know ladies right, they could say one thing but mean another.. so, the book is about how this 幸福的女人 is loved though the cover is that she is complaining she has not been receiving flowers for Valentine's Day, hahaha!!

    different people express their love differently lah, some do it this way some do it that way.. some are loud and flamboyant but some are low profile and subtle, as long as you can feel love, then nothing actually matters right?? hehe.. and all those little things that he is doing for you, Yannie, really show how loving he is and how much he loved you..

    in many other cases, it would be the she to do all this for him.. if not he will just ask her to go and take it from the fridge.. in your case, the fruits are so delicately cut into bite size pieces, and impressingly the orange too!! now, this man is sure a fine man and a very detailed man.. agree?? :)

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    1. SK, you are so clever, and you know Yannie so well. You can read Yannie's mind 100% correct. All my spamming effort and time spent at SK's blog is paid off, because now SK understands Yannie so much.

      Well, it is true, Yannie feels very sweet when thinking of all those little things that Jin Jin has done for YAM. He is the man that I want to marry again and again, I am just afraid that he won't want to marry Yannie again and again. lol!

      He knows Yannie loves fruit, he will cut fruits and serve to Yannie as Yannie's snack. Yannie has forgotten how to fill petrol, how to pay car park ticket, how to set alarm clock, how to clean house and how to drive on high way. Jin Jin has transformed Yannie into a parasite who can't live without him, good or bad?

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    2. Adoi! So cerita manis! Yannie kena spoilt until like a Princess....
      Ah Boy so cleber and understanding one. Yannie got any younger sister???
      * Hint * Hint

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    3. I tell you what happened yesterday. I do not want myself to be his parasite. So I took my car to fill petrol, I came back and showed him the receipt. I got a good scolding from him. "Who ask you to be so keypoh? I will take your car to fill petrol. See! Now you have to pay GST 3% for filling the premier 97 in you car, your old car only needs to fillpremier 95
      petrol. "

      Malu-lah! This parasite.

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  8. It is those things that he do that matters, right? Those day to day stuff that makes your life easier and better. :)

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    1. RealGunners, I actually don't mind at all what he does't, as I appreciate what he does more actually.

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  9. What he does is good enough. :)

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    1. He may not be the best for others, but he is the best for me. Thanks Agnes.

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    2. He may not be the best for others, but he is the best for me. Thanks Agnes.

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    1. Thanks for dropping by, mom2ashley.

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  11. oh that's sweet.. i guess men has different ways to show their affection.. it may not be the most ideal way like what typically depicted in books and movies but they sure know how to be sweet and caring in their own special way

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    1. Yes, Blue, you are right. My husband is a very practical type, he is not romantic at all, but never mind, i just like the way he is.

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  12. can see that he loves you in his own ways. :)

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  13. he is a very caring man...more important than romantic! LOL!

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  14. More or less the same with me. Haha.

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  15. You are very blessed. I can tell that he is a very good and kind man.

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  16. Hi Yan,

    You are a lucky gal. Your prince charming is so sweet :D

    Zoe

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  17. Oh that's so sweet Yan.

    I wish for No.4 set my alarm and wake me up.hahahahha

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