tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post575468492251031333..comments2024-03-22T17:19:13.290+08:00Comments on Blog with Yan: Everything happens for a reason, for better or worseYanniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-72032505917949152062015-12-22T09:26:38.431+08:002015-12-22T09:26:38.431+08:00Precisely, I do not want this to happen to other k...Precisely, I do not want this to happen to other kids. KE's mother is really too much, I still think so after so many days. Hahahah!Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-63788340036406252352015-12-22T09:26:28.475+08:002015-12-22T09:26:28.475+08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-81770784909194993962015-12-18T12:25:20.922+08:002015-12-18T12:25:20.922+08:00Thanks for sharing your experience with us. You ar...Thanks for sharing your experience with us. You are a strong mom and good that you have brought up this matter so that it will not happen again to other kids too.Yee Linghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12017254734772466742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-65322427119612540272015-11-24T13:58:19.674+08:002015-11-24T13:58:19.674+08:00Mun, thanks so much for your support and kind thou...Mun, thanks so much for your support and kind thoughts. My husband didn't comment anything. He just listened. He didn't verbally say that he supported me, but he also didn't stop me from doing all the things that I mentioned here. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-246710636318648842015-11-24T13:54:52.189+08:002015-11-24T13:54:52.189+08:00You are absolutely right. I think this is why the...You are absolutely right. I think this is why the PTA wanted to support me to give her a lesson. They also cannot accept what she had done. There are so many things which is more important than getting number 1 at school. All of you here are sharing so many good points that will benefit all my readers who are dropping this post. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-4110762719681356892015-11-24T13:50:37.278+08:002015-11-24T13:50:37.278+08:00Princess Ribbon, you are so true as well. I like a...Princess Ribbon, you are so true as well. I like all the assumption and thoughts you shared here. Precisely described KE's situation. In fact I learned something from the mistake that they have done. That's why I said "Everything happened for a reason."Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-28249325750949372442015-11-24T13:48:16.801+08:002015-11-24T13:48:16.801+08:00Chris, I agree with you too. Nowadays, the childre...Chris, I agree with you too. Nowadays, the children learn so many thing at young age, they learn many skill sets and knowledge, but they lack of EQ and moral. This is the failure of our education strategy, which focus too much at academy achievement. <br />Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-17950037326264848062015-11-24T13:45:44.743+08:002015-11-24T13:45:44.743+08:00Before the closed-door meeting, I admit that I was...Before the closed-door meeting, I admit that I was actually kind of anxious and angry. After the closed-door meeting, I feel so much lighter and easy. I have forgiven their mistake, but I don't know whether they have forgiven themselves, if no, they will start to put the blame to others, such as blaming the school teacher and the HM. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-62960813830527339352015-11-24T13:26:35.198+08:002015-11-24T13:26:35.198+08:00Thank you for updating here on what happened after...Thank you for updating here on what happened after that. Hopefully KE and her mother have learned a lot from this and will not repeat their mistakes. You handle the whole situation very calmly and professionally too. What did your husband think about this whole thing?munhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11449093706822850017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-31674196445677663462015-11-23T10:06:51.554+08:002015-11-23T10:06:51.554+08:00I cringe to think this is how KE will grow up, no ...I cringe to think this is how KE will grow up, no thanks to the mom. Wait till she comes out to the real world, where minor mistakes happen on a daily basis and we have to go with the flow rather than persist on a minor mistake for too long. Come year end increment, her team mate get 1% higher increment than her, I hope she won't go and challenge the boss to dissect their performances to her.RealGunnershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10825458587938489052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-42344993552304583042015-11-23T08:03:30.715+08:002015-11-23T08:03:30.715+08:00Huh, no wonder la, after I read your post, I'm...Huh, no wonder la, after I read your post, I'm thinking, KE's mother is too free, nothing to do.. "mou yeh jou, wan yeh lei chou" (nothing to do, find things to make noise).. I may sound rude, but if she continues to act this way, one day KE will be so tensed up, (don't worry, I won't say she will jump down from the building), she will pack her bags and leave her mum one day, stay on her own and gain her freedom..<br />But I have to say you are very strong willed too, like what TM said, you will fight for justice for the girls nomatter what, which I support.. I really don't like politics (in school or at work), I'm not particular, and I'm not bothered by kid's results, to be honest.. Not that I don't care, but I think they are too small to be "pressured", just sun-kei-ci-yin lagi baik, I mean for my kids la, they are just 4 and 2 by the way.. Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-57728820638434220292015-11-23T01:01:29.556+08:002015-11-23T01:01:29.556+08:00Well done! I think you did right! And I hate those...Well done! I think you did right! And I hate those politics in school...aiyo.. what's the point of bribing the teachers to let her kid won so many awards? It actually won't do her kid good. What happens when she comes out to work later? Unless she take over her family business, she would be under pressure to perform then. <br /><br />Most importantly, it's the EQ that matters. No point having lots of awards but lose out in EQ. You did right and fight for your little kid rights. ChrisAuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14077277168519458783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-55813505911897206662015-11-22T23:20:34.394+08:002015-11-22T23:20:34.394+08:00Yes, if I were you, I would do that do. Fight for ...Yes, if I were you, I would do that do. Fight for our rights.wennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535757998884625545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-55342272335725379782015-11-21T16:11:07.760+08:002015-11-21T16:11:07.760+08:00Mamarazzi, bingo, I think the same too when I hear...Mamarazzi, bingo, I think the same too when I heard what she said at the closed-door meeting. She wanted to show that she has arranged a friendly way to receive the awards together, meaning two person also number 1. <br /><br />If the exam paper marking keeps changing, the teachers will be very busy. I wanted the HM to stand firm regardless who is coming to complain. I don't like the double standard thing exists in the school. <br /><br />Thank Kathy for your support. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-72846538327099022312015-11-21T16:02:41.210+08:002015-11-21T16:02:41.210+08:00wah lau eh...what she ment by she planned to have ...wah lau eh...what she ment by she planned to have her daughter hold hands goup the stage to collect the award TOGETHER ah? <br /><br />Does she mean that IF her daughter get number 1, then will ask May go up together to show that her daughter have a big heart? or if her daughter get num 2, she wants her daughter to tag along with May? <br /><br />Ahem....all these awards not annouce name one by one and go up the stage one by one meh?<br /><br />Yannie is right leh. Once exam paper marked and parents signed liao agree with the markings then shouldn't change. <br /><br />It's good that you stood up against KE's mom and protected May. This is not to show one up to KE's mom but rather to show to May that she must stand up for her rights in the future. <br /><br />Small Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-79469015407375334892015-11-21T13:38:44.584+08:002015-11-21T13:38:44.584+08:00Claire, my daughter told me yesterday. She and KE ...Claire, my daughter told me yesterday. She and KE are in different class. i guess this is the special arrangement for us. Besides, the HM had informed all students that next years onward, no parents can come inside the school compound . The parents can only send and pick at the gate. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-63423099625116390222015-11-21T12:18:18.238+08:002015-11-21T12:18:18.238+08:00After this, she will think twice before she does t...After this, she will think twice before she does the next step... I wonder what steps the school will take to prevent this from happening again... I am sure they will think of something, you will let us know next year, can? hahaaaa... Anyway, I think you are a very strong lady, I admire you for that... Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-22110654269973808202015-11-21T11:46:38.539+08:002015-11-21T11:46:38.539+08:00Thanks Rose, I guess the mother still owes her own...Thanks Rose, I guess the mother still owes her own daughter an apology. She has shown her a very bad example. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-30716359797744150562015-11-21T11:31:14.110+08:002015-11-21T11:31:14.110+08:00It is good that eventually this is solved and ever...It is good that eventually this is solved and everyone has understanding of what happening<br /> Hope this would not repeat. Really emotional and demoralising for young children in such competitive environment.<br /><br />Well done to May. Keep up the good work. Jia you!Rose worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02104898697123799249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-90945877984988584372015-11-21T09:18:10.560+08:002015-11-21T09:18:10.560+08:00Arthur, you are right. She should go through teach...Arthur, you are right. She should go through teachers if she doesn't satisfy with anything, but she has no right to assess my daughter's exam papers without the consent of the parents. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-34841742562813887232015-11-21T09:14:48.170+08:002015-11-21T09:14:48.170+08:00In fact, my daughter form teacher and her daughter...In fact, my daughter form teacher and her daughter form teacher told me that they actually scared of her long time ago. She is one trouble makers. Sigh! Rich Tai Tai are too free, and they just busy for nothing. <br />They think that they are helping the children, to me, they are actually spoiling the children. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-52099906614018348192015-11-21T09:11:28.742+08:002015-11-21T09:11:28.742+08:00Hayley, you are right, I can't help agree with...Hayley, you are right, I can't help agree with you. <br />Rich in the soul is more important than rich in the material. <br /><br />That's what MF told me. I should let many know about her behavior. <br />May is very naive. I think this happening make her grown up faster, as I taught her not to trust anyone easily now. She is affected somehow. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-85585827609096580942015-11-21T09:07:48.393+08:002015-11-21T09:07:48.393+08:00Good input, SK!
My girls are still in primary sc...Good input, SK! <br /><br />My girls are still in primary school, that is why so many issues about exam papers. The parents are taking advantage of the loose management in primary school. If it is in secondary, no parent dare to go and fight anything about exam with the secondary teachers. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-12576133024673835602015-11-21T09:01:30.600+08:002015-11-21T09:01:30.600+08:00Honestly, I couldn't sense whether her apology...Honestly, I couldn't sense whether her apology is sincere or she is under pressured of situation. <br /><br />Thanks for your support, SK. The first comment in my previous post has given me lots of inspiration on what I should talk in the closed door meeting. Don't you know that? Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5018999926186454354.post-19836192708453582902015-11-21T08:36:29.389+08:002015-11-21T08:36:29.389+08:00Phong Hong, you think I have done right. Thank you...Phong Hong, you think I have done right. Thank you. After the closed door meeting, I have returned to my own routine and got back my peace of mind. Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.com